“happiness is a state of mind- when one wants to be happy he should convince his body, soul and mind that he should be happy” – ang gulo noh? D ko din gets eh- but this what I got to hear from a friend when I told him that I’m no longer happy….
State of mind nga lang ba ang happiness???? Paano nga ba masasabi ng tao na Masaya cya? Ano ang basis, parameters para maging Masaya ang isang tao? Ditto pumpasok ang individual differences- sa paniniwala ko lahat ng tao, iba iba ang aspeto o bagay na maaring magpaligaya sa iisang tao- but then again, it would me much correct if I state it this way – pwdeng pare parehong bagay pero iba iba ng level.
As the adage goes “what’s best for you is not necessarily best for me”
It greatly depends on the need of a person, and I’m talking about quantity and quality here.
Time and again I kept telling my friends- na life is just a cycle- like ngayon malungkot ako, kasi dati Masaya ako. Madami ang kokontra- pero I firmly believe that nothing lasts forever not even sadness for that matter kasi nga cycle ang lahat.
When I was still in college, and there are times that I can’t get the material things that I want – what I usually do, is go out and invite friends to play football- kasi in that way I’ll start to feel good again- I’ll come back to my senses, that even though I can’t have all the thing that I want – I’m still very much blessed compared to the others.
With that practice ko narealize – na whatever I’m into right now- there are many others out there who are experiencing much more that what I have- and it comes into various forms, pwdeng mas Masaya, pwdeng mas malungkot.
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